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The Delicate Dance of Affection

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Tender emotions are a type of emotion that we experience when we feel affectionate towards someone. It is a feeling of warmth, care, and love that is often associated with close relationships such as family, friends, and romantic partners. Expressing these emotions can have both advantages and disadvantages and not expressing them can have emotional reasons behind it. In this article, we will explore tender emotions, why it is important to express them, and what happens when we don't. Tender emotions are diverse and can manifest in many ways. They include feelings of closeness, warmth, and appreciation. For example, you may feel tender emotions when you spend time with a friend you haven't seen in a long time. You may also experience tender emotions when someone expresses kindness or support towards you. Here are a few examples of tender emotions: Feeling close to a partner or family member Feeling protective of a loved one Feeling grateful for someone's support Feeling tou...

Sometimes I need space & I love you too...!

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  दोन संपूर्णपणे वेगळ्या व्यक्तींनी एकत्र राहणं म्हणजे काही प्रमाणात adjustment करणं , तडजोड करणं , आत्तापर्यंत आपण जसे जगत आलेले असतो त्यात रोज होणारा बदल पाहणं. माझ्या गोष्टी , वस्तू , पैसा आणि सगळ्यात महत्त्वाचं म्हणजे "माझी space" (me time) कालपर्यंत ज्या फक्त माझ्या होत्या त्या आता कुणाबरोबर तरी रोज-रोज वाटल्या जाणार असतात.   सोबत राहायला लागल्यावर सगळ्यात अवघड होतं ते आपली space share करणं. आपण जेव्हा आपला partner निवडतो , त्याला/ तिला स्वीकारायला तयार असतो तेव्हा मी माझी म्हणून जी space आत्ता पर्यंत घेत होतो/ होते त्याबद्दल किंवा माझ्या partner ला हव्या असणाऱ्या space बद्दल काय विचार करतो/ करते ?   अनेकदा एकमेकांना space देणं कठीण होतं. कारण लग्न झालं म्हणजे एकमेकांच्या सुख-दुःखांची जबाबदारी घेणं compulsory असल्याची भावना त्यामागे असते. पण यात समोरची व्यक्ती माझा partner असला/ असली तरी एक स्वतंत्र व्यक्ती आहे ही बाजू पूर्णपणे दुर्लक्षित केली जाते. माणूस कितीही नात्यांमध्ये गुंतला तरी त्याला , त्याचे स्वतःशी असणारे , स्वतंत्र नाते जपायला मिळणे ही त्याची मुख्य गरज का...

This is Age Appropriate... Isn't it..?

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In two stages, children become aware of their individuality. At the beginning of their third or fourth year, when they take their first steps away from their parents (especially their mothers), grandparents, or other caregivers. When they start kindergarten and play with other kids their age. They start to see people, like their teachers and friends, other than the people they have lived with so far. This is where they start to learn how to live with other people. But they still have to depend on their parents or other caregivers for everything. This is the first time they have expressed a desire to go outside. The second stage is adolescence, when their image (self-image) is formed in different ways, such as in their finances, social lives, sexual lives, mental lives, and intellectual lives. They try to find out how they will become significant in this world and whether they can survive without their parents. From this point on, the desire to leave home and see the outside world beg...